I don't normally like talking about my students in any detail on this blog, since this is my blog and not theirs, so some elements of this story have been changed just for privacy's sake.
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| Sunset on the way to my house the other night! |
She's riding a few horses, which is great! This one was a new one for both of us. I had never met the horse before and this was my student's third ride on her. The horse is a bit spoiled, but a nice mover and has some good training in there under the spoiled attitude.
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| TC would like to be more spoiled please |
The horse was a bit lookie, which made my rider sit a little tighter than I'm used to her sitting on her personal, much more chill, horse. She told me that the horse could really spook and bolt and described her tendency to get into the landau reflex.
Sure enough, the horse is lazy hot. Spooky and reactive, but to get out of work rather than due to anything in particular. Sometimes she'd pass an obstacle in the arena and spook at it, other times she wouldn't. It was all due to my student using her leg to ask the horse to move forward, not the actual object itself.
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| We're doing a lot of walking in the water to get him to use his butt in a different way, I dunno if that's valid but it's been fun |
Now, I have my own fear issues. This is a horse I don't know, I don't have my back brace or regular boots... but I clambered on. Immediately she threatened me with a TC-like basilisk move and even threatened to rear at one point. I was fine though, being fit has really allowed me to have way more control over my nerves!
So, if this had been TC, he would have gotten a right spanking and I'd be prepared to sit some shit. But he is my personal horse. And while one day he will be for sale, we can go through a week of him trying to launch me (hey we did that two weeks ago, and this week looks good for a launchy week too, yay fall weather).
BUT this is a client's horse, which means two things. One: my student is there watching me, if I smacked the horse and she erupted into bucks, my student's fear would increase. I needed to work through it without pissing off the horse. Two: I am only down there twice a month, I needed to make sure that I used aids and exercises that my student could use on her own. She's not going to give this horse a thwack with the whip when she starts to be obnoxious next time.
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| Never been obnoxious |
I broke it down, had her walk more forward and then slow down. She got praise for walking more forward from my leg. She got praise for slowing down. Soon the spooking stopped, I got an ear on me. From the very forward walk, it was harder for her to slow down than it was for her to trot, so I asked for trot and immediately praised and walked. Forward walk. Trot. Praise. Walk. Soon I had her trotting on a loose rein around the arena.
I put my student back on and we worked through it with her on board too.
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| Definitely not trying to bite my foot |
Could I have gotten on and popped the horse with the whip and fixed it immediately? Sure. But that's not what I would have considered good training for this particular situation. Does this mean that I lost or that the horse won? Absolutely not. Training is not about winning or losing or showing the horse that they can't get away with something. I simply started to reward the behavior I wanted and make the bad behavior more difficult to perform than the good behavior. And most importantly, I wanted to do it in a way that my student could.
In another situation, maybe punishment would have been helpful to really squash the bad behavior immediately. But this was not that situation. I'm a big believer in not just training the horse to the best of your ability as a trainer, but also to look at the situation as a whole, which includes the rider too. At times you see trainers training horses for the sake of training the horse, not training the horse FOR their rider. And sometimes that can erupt into trainers getting their riders to put the horse in full training with minimal lessons, pay for the trainer to show the horse... until the rider really doesn't get to ride the horse at all.
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| Wandering around in the evening one day |






That sounds lovely. Having had my old Thoroughbred schooled by a trainer without me in mind... Yea, I couldn't ride him when she was done. I don't have the nerve to deal with the bucking and things, so what you did was a great solution I'm going to keep in mind for myself. Not that Penn does that kind of thing, but hot lazy kind of speaks to me when he's being tense and looky.
ReplyDeleteI love this approach and I'm sure your student totally appreciates not only you giving her back a horse she could handle but also being given the tools to handle her while you're not there.
ReplyDeleteWhen I fell off in 2001 and broke my wrist, we put Promise in training until I got the ok to ride from the doctor. Once I was cleared to ride again, she worked with me extensively to teach me how she got all the new buttons to work on my horse. It really was helpful to have that little bit of hand holding starting out, especially since my confidence was a bit damaged from not being able to get right back on after that fall!
This is super interesting! Thanks for sharing. The only time I've considered something like this in the past was in a Mugwump Chronicles post from like 10 years ago. She said she never "sacked out" her own reining horses, because she wanted them highly attuned to all stimuli, including her aids, and "spicy". But she did a lot of sacking out with her adult ammie training horses, because that group of riders needed a less-reactive mount more than they needed reining's next great superstar.
ReplyDeleteThis sounds so much like my trainer. Could someone else got on my horse and do things right away that have taken me months? Heck yes! But I want to ride my own horse, I want to learn how to do it. It might mean we have do things a little bit differently or that it takes longer, but I'm on board with that.
ReplyDeleteI love this post. You have such a natural talent for teaching.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing this story! What a nice reminder that there are more solutions available and the world of horses and riders is definitely not one-size-fits-all. It's nice to know trainers like you exist in the world.
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